Obligation of Gift Giving
Is it really the thought that counts? How often do you expect something in return? Does a gift require reciprocation?
Release Date: December 23, 2022
Is it really the thought that counts? How often do you expect something in return? Does a gift require reciprocation?
DISCLAIMER: Some hard and difficult topics. If you are easily offended, this may not be for you. There are sometimes some hard topics and hard truths, and if you are not ready for it, i suggest maybe to revisit at a later time when you do feel more prepared.
Audio
Welcome to Eclipsed Views where we see what it would take to change our views. This is for self-help through Kaizen, a Japanese term for improvement in small increments.
DISCLAIMER: Some hard and difficult topics. If you are easily offended, this may not be for you. There are sometimes some hard topics and hard truths, and if you are not ready for it, i suggest maybe to revisit at a later time when you do feel more prepared.
Introduce
Guests: Enrique Ponce and Candice Sierra
We are citizens, colleagues, professionals, consumers, friends, family-members, teachers, learners, human beings.
Street Epistemology - Socratic Questioning
How did you come to that stance?
Are those reasons legitimate enough to continue to hold that stance?
Conjecture - Forming an opinion based on incomplete information.
How do you know when you have enough evidence to form an opinion?
Topic - Obligation of Gift Giving
Scenario - Scale from 1-100.
State your position. At the end we come back and see if the needle moved at all.
You are going to a family gathering. As the years go by, the “kids” are growing up and getting boyfriends and girlfriends. On a scale of 1-100 how likely are you to get a gift for the new boyfriend/girlfriend. 0- not at all and 100 very likely
Candice - 80/70
Kique - 40/20
Vero - 10/40
Sal - 10/15
You are working with an intern at work, and they just gave you a gift. You weren’t planning on getting them anything. How likely are you to give them a gift back?
Candice - 101/99
Kique - 5/5
Vero - 100/90
Sal - 10/20
You have a decent sized family with a lot of kids, cousins, etc. You got a little something for everyone, but you didn’t get a single gift from anybody. Gift giving is not supposed to be about reciprocity. On a scale of 1-100 how much does this affect you. 0 not at all 100 very much so.
Candice - 0/40
Kique - 0/5
Vero - 60/60
Sal - 25/25
Questions to think about?
Define:
Obligation: to bind legally or morally
Gift: something voluntarily transferred by one person to another without compensation
What are your thoughts on this topic?
What should be the criteria for someone to make your list? Money vs no money.
You are the boyfriend/Girlfriend that does not get anything because the family barely knows you.
Don’t buy me anything…
The thought that counts? Bad gift vs the thought?
Relief from not getting a gift.
Getting rid of a gift.
Measuring the gift in hours you work.
Couples? Kids Gifts? One of the kids you don’t like…
People who expect a gift…
Rekindling friendships during Christmas because of a gift
How did you come to that stance?
Conjecture. How do you know when you have enough evidence to form an opinion?
How aware are you of your biases when forming opinions?
What is blocking your view? What is keeping you from changing your mind?
What about you? What are your thoughts? Let us know.
Political Correctness
To be offended or not to be offended? That is the question. Who decides what should be offensive or not?Sometimes it appears others are being offended for other people. Who does this benefit? Is it getting the desired outcome? What are it’s pros and cons?
Release Date: December 9, 2022
To be offended or not to be offended? That is the question. Who decides what should be offensive or not?Sometimes it appears others are being offended for other people. Who does this benefit? Is it getting the desired outcome? What are it’s pros and cons?
DISCLAIMER: Some hard and difficult topics. If you are easily offended, this may not be for you. There are sometimes some hard topics and hard truths, and if you are not ready for it, i suggest maybe to revisit at a later time when you do feel more prepared.
Audio
Welcome to Eclipsed Views where we see what it would take to change our views. This is for self-help through Kaizen, a Japanese term for improvement in small increments.
DISCLAIMER: Some hard and difficult topics. If you are easily offended, this may not be for you. There are sometimes some hard topics and hard truths, and if you are not ready for it, i suggest maybe to revisit at a later time when you do feel more prepared.
Introduce
OPTIONAL introduce skilled areas. Impact of bias on the listeners opinion.
Relation
Friends
Family
Length of time knowing each other.
Years
Months
Weeks
We are citizens, colleagues, professionals, consumers, friends, family-members, teachers, learners, human beings.
Street Epistemology - Socratic Questioning
How did you come to that stance?
Are those reasons legitimate enough to continue to hold that stance?
Conjecture - Forming an opinion based on incomplete information.
How do you know when you have enough evidence to form an opinion?
Topic - Political Correctness
Scenario - Scale from 1-100.
State your position. At the end we come back and see if the needle moved at all.
You’re applying for a job that requires you to be politically correct to a high degree. This job would be paying you a good chunk of money that you/family could really benefit from. On a scale of 1-100 how likely are you to take the job?
Louie 10/10
Vero 98/90
Sal 60/60
Someone rallied a group of people to vandalize your home/business/place of work. The person who rallied these people did not participate in the actions, but has been constantly talking to this group to do something. On a scale of 1-100. Should they be held equally accountable? 1 being not accountable, 100 accountable.
Louie 51/51
Vero 60/60
Sal 75/75
Scale of 1-10. 1 is strongly disagree 10 is strongly agree
Morally acceptable to punch a Nazi
Louie 10
Vero 10
Sal 10
Stripping citizenship of someone who burns the flag
Louie 2
Vero 2
Sal 1
Law that requires use of transgender people’s preferred pronoun
Louie 1
Vero 2
Sal 1
NFL player being fired for refusing to stand for national anthem
Louie 2
Vero 2
Sal 1
Being fired for offensive posts
Louie 1
Vero 1
Sal 1
Questions to think about?
Define Political correctness
the avoidance, often considered as taken to extremes, of forms of expression or action that are perceived to exclude, marginalize, or insult groups of people who are socially disadvantaged or discriminated against.
Vero - Not offending individuals who are different than yourself
Louie - Prioritizing sensitivity over facts.
Why did you choose this topic?
What are the pros and cons to political correctness? Who does it benefit?
Is voicing an unpopular opinion the same as being politically incorrect?
How do you critique these groups without it being considered an “attack”
Why are the ones that want political correctness trying to enforce it?
Does it accomplish what it is trying to do?
What would be a better solution?
How did you come to that stance?
Article on Politically incorrect terms
What about you? What are your thoughts? Let us know.